The Title

I'd like to explain the title of the blog.  It is a song lyric, from the song Nothing Like You by Frightened Rabbit.

It's a quality song, here is a link.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uZn1V7O1Qd0

It compares getting over someone to recovering from an operation getting rid of a tumor. 
"as the size of this tumour diminishes
so we fill that black hole"

I feel like that is amazing.  Just the idea of filling a black hole is so far-fetched, and I feel like it kind trying to fill your brain, your imagination.  That's what writing tries to do, fill the black hole.